How Texas Agents Should Confirm Client Instructions in Writing
Client instructions should not live only in your memory.
They also should not live only in a rushed phone call, a scattered text thread, a social media message, or a quick comment during a busy transaction.
Real estate transactions move quickly. Clients make decisions under pressure. Agents discuss offer terms, repair requests, counteroffers, deadlines, title issues, financing updates, appraisal concerns, closing delays, and termination options. Some of those decisions eventually show up in signed documents. Many do not.
That is why Texas agents should develop a simple habit: Confirm important client instructions in writing.
This does not mean every conversation needs to become a long, formal memo. It does not mean you need to sound like a lawyer. It does not mean you need to make the client nervous. It simply means that important decisions should be preserved in a clear, file-friendly way.
A short confirmation email can do a lot of work. It can clarify what the client decided, confirm what the agent will do next, identify the relevant deadline, and make the transaction file easier to review later. By adopting the habit of confirming important client instructions in writing, you can better protect the client, the agent, and the file without overcomplicating your workflow.
Client Instructions Deserve Special Attention
A transaction file should show more than what was signed. It also should help explain what the client instructed the agent to do. That’s important because many important transaction decisions begin before a document is signed.
For example, before an offer is submitted, the client decides what price to offer, what financing terms to use, how much earnest money to offer, whether to request a seller contribution, whether to include certain addenda, and how aggressive or conservative the offer should be.
Before a repair amendment is signed, the client decides what repairs to request, whether to ask for a concession, whether to accept the property as-is, or whether to move forward despite inspection concerns.
Before a termination notice is sent, the client decides whether to continue with the transaction or end it.
Those decisions matter. And the communications surrounding those decisions need to be preserved in writing.
If someone reviews the file later, the signed documents may show the final result. But they may not show how the client got there or what the client instructed the agent to do.
That is where written confirmations help.
The Problem with Relying on Memory
Memory feels reliable during the transaction. But it is not always reliable later.
Six months after closing, the details may not be as clear. The client may remember the conversation differently. The other agent may recall a different timeline. The file may not show why a deadline was missed, why a repair was not requested, why a buyer proceeded despite a concern, or why a seller accepted a particular term.
That’s not to say anyone is being dishonest. But real estate transactions are busy, stressful, and detail-heavy. IN such a fast-paced and detail-heavy environment, a short written confirmation can preserve the key point while the details are fresh in your mind.
Relying Only on Texts and App Messages Is Not the Answer
Text messages are convenient. But they are a poor long-term filing system.
Important client instructions often arrive by text because texting is fast and easy. The problem is that text messages can be hard to search, hard to organize, hard to export, and hard to connect with the rest of the transaction file. They also are easy to delete or to lose permanently.
Messaging apps can make this even harder. A client instruction might be buried in Messenger, WhatsApp, Instagram messages, Signal, Telegram, or another platform that does not fit neatly into the brokerage’s file system. Mixed in with personal messages, this plethora of messaging platforms only adds to the difficulty in keeping important transaction communications organized and accessible.
That does not mean agents should never communicate by text. But it does mean agents should be careful when an important instruction appears only in a text thread or app message.
If the instruction affects the contract, the deadline, the negotiation, the client’s position, or the transaction strategy, consider confirming it in a more file-friendly way.
What kinds of instructions should be confirmed?
Not every casual message needs a formal confirmation. But some client instructions deserve special care.
Agents should consider confirming instructions involving:
- offer price
- financing terms
- seller contributions
- appraisal-related decisions
- option period decisions
- earnest money or option fee issues
- counteroffer decisions
- repair requests
- repair concessions
- decisions not to request repairs
- title or survey objections
- HOA or resale certificate issues
- possession timing
- temporary lease issues
- closing extensions
- waiver of concerns or objections
- termination decisions
- decisions to proceed despite a known issue
- major negotiation strategy
- instructions to deliver a notice, amendment, or other document
A good rule of thumb is simple: If the instruction affects the client’s rights, obligations, deadlines, negotiation position, or decision to proceed, it probably deserves a written confirmation.
What a good confirmation should include
A good confirmation does not need to be long or complicated. In many situations, a few clear sentences are enough.
A useful confirmation usually identifies:
- what was discussed
- what the client decided
- what action the agent will take
- what document will be prepared or delivered
- what deadline matters
- whether any follow-up is needed
The tone should be calm, plain, and professional. You are not trying to scare the client or impress them with legal-sounding language. You are just trying to confirm the plan.
A simple structure works well:
- Thank the client or reference the conversation.
- Confirm the decision or instruction.
- State the next step.
- Identify any deadline or follow-up item.
For example:
“Thank you for speaking with me today about the inspection report. Confirming that you would like us to request the repairs listed in the attached amendment and send it to the seller’s agent today.”
That message is not complicated. But it confirms the conversation, documents the instruction, identifies the action to be taken, and helps preserve the file.
Let’s look at a few practical, real-world examples of when written confirmation of client instructions can be important.
Example: Confirming Offer Terms
Before submitting an offer, agents often discuss price, financing, earnest money, option period, seller contributions, closing date, leaseback terms, and other important details.
Those terms usually appear in the offer documents. But it can still help to confirm the client’s instruction before submission, especially when the terms are unusual, aggressive, time-sensitive, or materially different from what the agent expected. A quick confirmation can establish why certain provisions were included in the offer – or left out.
Here’s an example:
“Confirming that you would like us to submit the offer at $____ with $____ in earnest money, a ____-day option period, a requested closing date of ____, and the seller contribution we discussed. I will prepare the offer package and send it for your review and signature.”
That kind of confirmation can help avoid later confusion about what the client did or did not authorize.
Example: Confirming a Counteroffer Decision
Counteroffers can move quickly, and time may be of the essence. A client may tell the agent by phone or text to accept, reject, or respond with different terms.
When the decision matters, confirm it.
Example:
“Confirming that you would like to accept the seller’s counteroffer as discussed. I will send the final documents for signature and will forward the signed documents once complete.”
Or:
“Confirming that you do not want to accept the current counteroffer. I will prepare a response with the revised terms we discussed – [list the terms] – and send it to you for review.”
The point is not to make the transaction more formal than necessary. The point is to make the instruction clear and to eliminate any future confusion over exactly what was communicated.
Example: Confirming Repair Decisions
Repair negotiations are one of the easiest places for confusion to develop.
Clients may change their minds. Inspection issues may seem more serious at first than they do after some reflection. Contractors may provide different or even conflicting information. The client may decide to ask for repairs, request a credit, accept the property as-is, or terminate the deal entirely.
In such high-stakes discussions, those decisions should not live only in a phone call.
Example:
“Confirming that you would like us to request the repairs listed in the attached amendment. Once you approve and sign the amendment, I will send it to the seller’s agent before the option period deadline.”
Another example:
“Confirming that you have decided not to request additional repairs and would like to move forward with the transaction. I will continue tracking the remaining deadlines and will let you know if anything else needs your attention.”
That second example is important because a decision not to act can matter just as much as a decision to act.
Example: Confirming a Decision to Proceed Despite a Known Issue
Sometimes a client decides to move forward even though a concern remains. That concern might involve inspection findings, repair limitations, appraisal uncertainty, financing conditions, title matters, survey issues, HOA documents, insurance concerns, or closing logistics.
If the client chooses to proceed despite a known issue, the agent should confirm that decision in writing. If the deal does not go through to closing because of the issue the client chose to move past, having a written record of exactly what the client said or authorized can become very important.
Example:
“Confirming our conversation about the inspection concerns we discussed. You have decided to continue with the transaction and not request additional repairs at this time. Please let me know immediately if that changes before the applicable deadline, which is _________.”
This kind of confirmation helps preserve the client’s decision in a clear, professional way. It also can provide some security against a later claim that the agent never told the client the full story.
Example: Confirming Deadline-Related Instructions
Deadlines are high-risk areas in any transaction. Two of the most important deadlines in many transactions are the option period deadline and the financing contingency (or Buyer Approval) deadline.
When a client gives an instruction that affects a deadline, document it.
Example:
“Confirming that the option period expires at 5:00 pm on ____. You have instructed us to proceed with the repair request we discussed. I will send the amendment for signature and delivery today.”
Another example:
“Confirming that you do not want to terminate before the option period deadline and want to continue with the purchase. I will continue tracking the remaining contract deadlines.”
Deadline confirmations help the client understand the time-sensitive nature of the decision. They also help the file show what happened in ways that are not always captured in signed contract documents.
Example: Confirming Termination Instructions
Termination instructions should be handled carefully.
If a client instructs the agent to terminate, the file should clearly show the instruction, the applicable timing, and the next step.
Example:
“Confirming that you have instructed us to terminate the contract. I will prepare the termination documents for your review and signature and will deliver them as instructed once they are signed.”
This does not replace broker guidance, legal advice, or proper use of the correct forms. But it does preserve the client’s instruction in the file.
How to Keep Confirmations from Sounding Scary
Some agents avoid written confirmations because they worry the client will think something is wrong or perhaps that the agent is being aggressive with the client. That usually comes down to tone and the client’s perception of what the agent writes in the confirmation email.
A confirmation does not need to sound defensive, legalistic, or alarming. A better approach is to be calm and professional, using plain language and avoiding jargon or legal-sounding terms.
Instead of sounding like this:
Pursuant to our discussion, this email shall serve as written confirmation of your instruction…
Use plain language:
Confirming our conversation today…
Or:
Just confirming the plan we discussed…
Or:
To make sure we are on the same page…
Those phrases feel service-oriented. They tell the client the agent is organized, attentive, and trying to avoid misunderstandings. The goal is clarity, not intimidation.
Where to Save the Confirmation
A confirmation does not help much if it disappears into an inbox and cannot be located later.
Once an important instruction is confirmed, the confirmation should be preserved in the transaction file according to the brokerage’s system.
That may mean saving the email as a PDF, uploading it to the transaction platform, forwarding it to the transaction coordinator, saving it in the client communication folder, or otherwise preserving it where the broker can review it later.
When you save the confirmation email to PDF, be sure to give it a file name that lends itself to later searching. Good things to include are the date, the name of the client, and the topic of the document.
The same principle applies to text messages.
If an important instruction starts by text, consider confirming it by email or saving the text in a file-friendly format consistent with broker policy.
At the end of the day, the file should make the client’s instruction easy to find later.
Don’t Overdo It
Not every message needs a confirmation. That would quickly get overwhelming. So use your judgment in deciding what communications need a confirmation.
Routine scheduling messages, minor logistical updates, and casual communications usually do not need to be separately confirmed unless they affect the transaction in some meaningful way.
For example, you probably do not need a formal confirmation for things like:
- “I will be five minutes late.”
- “The inspector confirmed the appointment.”
- “I will call you this afternoon.”
- “The lockbox is on the front door.”
- “I will resend the document.”
But context matters, so apply your own judgment.
If a message affects a deadline, delivery, client decision, negotiation position, repair issue, termination decision, or the client’s rights or obligations, it should be preserved.
The Review Test
Here is a simple test to help you decide: could someone review the file later and understand the client’s instruction without calling you?
If the answer is yes, great. If the answer is no, the instruction may need better documentation.
A good confirmation helps the file answer basic questions:
- What did the client decide?
- When did the client decide it?
- What did the agent do next?
- What deadline mattered?
- What document or communication followed?
- Where can the confirmation be found?
That is what makes a file easier to review, explain, and defend later.
The Real Takeaway
Ultimately, the practice of confirming client instructions in writing is not about distrust. It is about clarity so that we can better serve our clients.
It helps the client understand what will happen next. It helps the agent avoid misunderstandings. It helps the broker review the file. It helps preserve the story of the transaction.
The best confirmations are usually simple, calm, and factual. They do not need to sound legalistic or intimidating. They just need to make the important instruction clear.
You do not need to turn every conversation into paperwork. The goal is to preserve the decisions that matter.
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About Michael Hughes
Michael Hughes is a Texas real estate attorney, broker, educator, and former Managing Broker for eXp Realty Texas, where he oversaw compliance operations for nearly 10,000 agents statewide.
With more than 20 years of legal experience and over a decade in Texas real estate brokerage, Michael helps agents navigate contracts, compliance, risk management, and transaction systems through First Rate Agent and Advantage TC.
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